CHARDONAY STEAMED FISH
Monday, July 13, 2015
TODAY I COOKED
Chardonnay steamed fish
Stewed red beans
Boiled cassava
Basmati rice
Did I ever tell you about my Dad, how at 4 months shy of his 93rd birthday he survived two operations on the same day? The man is strong yes.
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One year ago, August 2014, it was thought that Daddy’s neurological condition, a neuropathy that had crippled him some 15 years ago, had returned. Consultations between his Tobago Doctors and their New York counterparts resulted in us rushing him back to the big apple and directly to the Hospital.
The admitting Doctor thought that there was more wrong than just a return of the neuropathy. A Neurologist was summoned. Discussing Daddy’s condition with my nephew Stanley, the specialist and I discovered that Daddy had a head injury some months previously. His cut was sutured and he was sent home. A cat scan was ordered. It revealed a large accumulation of blood around his brain. Surgery was required.
Dr. Kim, the Neurologist advised me the next morning, just prior to operating, that had it been a younger person that such a large accumulation of blood would have been fatal. Four hours later Daddy was in intensive care.
Two hours later, they are asking me to authorize another operation because there is a blockage preventing the discharge of urine. Even when I exercise heavily I don’t perspire a lot, but in seconds, I was drenched. What to do? How can a near 93 year old survive another operation within hours of the other? I asked for time. I consulted with my Cameron medical family and reassured by them, I signed.
August to the middle of October was spent in New York helping my brothers and sisters with Daddy’s convalescence. He had several return visits with the surgeons plus an assigned Neurologist. When he was discharged, we were warned, “Don’t let your father fall and hit his head again.” He was given a walker, a cane and a wheel chair.
By the time he celebrated his 93rd birthday on December 15, 2014, Andrew Mc Farlane was looking and acting stronger than persons20-30 years younger than him. He made a new kitchen garden and grew tomatoes and peppers. We were fearful that gardening might be a bit dangerous and kept watch to make sure that he was not taking a tumble.
It was not his garden, which proved to be his undoing last month (June 2015), no not at all. It was the simple act of a midnight trip to the bathroom, which led to a fall and to his hitting his head. He has been hospitalized, had several tests, x-rays, ECG’s cat scans and will be seeing a Neurologist again this week.
The fall left him a little disoriented, generally tired and sleeping a lot.
So I am back helping out my Mom, sisters and brothers and the helper Tricia, with his care. Basically I cook lunch every day. I try for a varied menu and have come up with the following:
DAY 1
Steamed lobster tails
Sweet potato salad
Green papaya salad
DAY 2
Conch soup
DAY 3
Baked Rosemary flavored chicken
Stir-fry cauliflower
Pasta
Roasted tomatoes
DAY 4
Baked chicken chunks with shadow beni and lemon juice
Steamed vegetables
Corn on the cob
DAY 5
Salt fish buljol
Green fig
Yam
Dumplings
Cabbage chow
Tricia advised me that since I started cooking for them, that both parents are eating more than they had been in recent times. Hopefully this is strengthening them and assisting their healing (Mom has a cast for her carpal tunnel syndrome). Good food however was not enough to prevent Dad’s seizure.
Early Saturday morning my sister Val, via a terse, “just come quickly”, summoned sister Bridget and brothers Harvey, Richard and I. Dad had what the Doctor later diagnosed as a “partial seizure”.
Now you have to see the funny side to all these happenings.
Later that afternoon, Daddy, Harvey and I are sitting out on the porch talking. Remember what was said earlier “dat man real strong yes”. Daddy is recalling the happenings of that morning; he says, “I know everything that was happening you know. I know when Val lifted up my hand and it fell lifeless to my side. And your Mother raise up mih foot and it fell lifeless to the bed. Then they were talking and I am hearing everything they were saying and I am powerless to answer them. I am saying to myself, good God, like they going to bury me alive yes”.
A senior nurse and a doctor visited. They both assured us that Daddy would live to 100 years just like his mother before him. Four months from now he will be 94.
CHARDONAY STEAMED FISH
2 Fish steaks – Tuna
1 cup Chardonnay wine
6 cloves garlic – diced
¼ red onion – diced
Salt
½ cup water
2 tbsp. ketchup
¼ cup grated pumpkin
Black pepper
2 tbsp. olive oil
1 square of butter
1 lime
PREPARATION
Gently wash the steaks in water and the juice from the lime
Season steaks with salt and black pepper
COOKING
- Sautee onions, garlic and pumpkin in a deep saucepan
- Cook until pumpkin begins to melt
- Add butter and stir mixture until it melts
- Add water and wine and bring mixture to boil
- Lower the heat and add the tomato ketchup
- Fry steaks for 1 minute on each side
- Place steaks into the saucepan
- Bring liquid up to a boil
- Cover saucepan
- Lower the heat to medium
- Allow to steam for 20 minutes.